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i enjoy them all at different times and maybe have had pleasure waves along the way but something happened this weekend that felt pretty close to what maybe a Super O - i had a weekend to myself and didn’t plan it but basically did 3 hours last night and, on and off, almost 12 hours today and in the last 2-3 hours I had these waves over and over of feeling like I was approaching and then beyond the point of no return - kind of- of a normal orgasm  I was shaking and making sounds and saying things I didn’t even know were in me.  I added a Playboy Seeker to the mix but just kept going from one to another (usually when a battery died).

It’s been an hour or so since then and I’m still getting these beautiful aftershocks and my prostrate and rectum still seem to be reacting like these things in there  

i have not known pleasure like it and it feels like such a unique experience it can’t really be described in the words I have. It was like there was pleasure everywhere and also nowhere. It was like I could stop it at any moment but was also completely powerless. I was in the experience, commentating the experience and watching it  

i noticed some things - there are choices along the way to lean in or pull away - to follow what your body wants or what your head wants. I made some movements and got into positions that I had no idea I could do and certainly didn’t think of them myself. For a lot of it just the slightest movement brought a waterfall of sensation.

And like I have read, it was kind of a spiritual experience.

I kind of pushed out a regular orgasm at the end and it was powerful but I didn’t need it, I kind of wish I hadn’t done it.

interestingly no porn, no music, a little thc, lights off. I got an erection once but had no interest in my penis at all which is a first.

celebrating!! And hoping now that my body knows what it is, it won’t take a day to get there every time!  

So the "effort" issue for example.  It is not unheard of to go harder and faster when aroused to the build up and ejaculation finish.  Initially at least harder and faster with the prostate is often counter productive as it can mask the underlying sensations you're trying to unlock.  Hence the "do nothing" approach can work - as you've experience just breathing deeply in your lower abdomen will move the toy some.  I never had much success with that initially but I DID note how little movement it took, with patience, to start noticing feelings that with time build on each other.  I always struggled with being relaxed, making very subtle movements then when I started feeling things going faster and harder and poof they went away - for me at least you can't just apply hard work to get you there.  

I would also emphasize the journey aspect and there is no rush (although we all want to get to some positive results) and each session is different - headspace, how much time you have, how tired are you and what time of day is it, how is your body feeling that moment, etc... all impact results for that session.  Everyone has sessions that are so so, or maybe never get off the ground at all, and you pack up and try again later.  I have sort of plateaued and was having a hard time finding new paths and sensations - I've gotten pretty good at generating p waves and orgasms with and without toys consistently and fairly efficiently - super O's are a little less easily obtained but I had developed a pretty solid formula for me at least.  The "problem" with that such as it is, is that it had become slightly routine... so I've been working to add different elements in to keep it interesting and exciting.  As mentioned the perineal stimulation for me has been fun and different and since it's external is doesn't seem to have the same numbing impact internal toys particularly vibrating ones (to the original question) .

Hope this helps!

Note: this contradicts lot of advice, obviously this is very personal, everyone's journey is different. This is a good overview of mine.

Just had a chat with Gemini about my experience. It suggests that I give up the overly done muscle flexes, and take the "do nothing" approach. By "do nothing", it really means nothing other than maybe some "whisper squeeze" of the PC muscle, and by "whisper" it pretty means the natural tendency of the muscle with deep breathing. My way of flexing the muscles with the purpose of tiring them out was rejected as the right way leading to the kind of pleasure in store. I know AI sometimes tends to over emphasize one side of the story, and that's why I'm coming back to check with real people who can feel real things! Does this sound like good advice?